Anonymous
asked:
If you don't want to answer it's cool though how did you know you were a sub. Favorite position or thing to be done to you. Into shaming. Big or small pref

Hey, no its cool! I discovered I was a sub just kind of over time. I was with an ex for a long time that didnt quite fit the persona for a dom that I had in mind. But, I just knew I always wanted to be bossed around, etc. It wasn’t until I made a friend in college that I really learned about the BDSM world. She was into it, and explained most of it to me. I got a new bf and he loved my submission and was definitely a dom at heart. So, I’ve been learning and practicing since then. :) Its been a fun road, I am a fairly new sub, tbh. Its mostly bedroom based. I am not into shaming I don’t think. The most I could do was wear a visible bruise or a collar or something like that. And do you mean big or small penis size? If so, then I would say I prefer thickness to length. 

Thanks for asking. :)