Anonymous
asked:
Yes I was not clear new phone and can't figure this keyboard out. I was thinking about getting into it and liked your blog because you seem very low key and normal in your photos. Do you have any idea on what thickness you have tried and how it changed from person or did it make a difference in your experience in bdsm. I agree public seems a bit X citing but crazy risky.

Haha its cool :) Ya, I guess you could definitely say I am low key about it. Like I said, its mostly in the bedroom. I wouldn’t mind some restraints, but I dont want to be strung from the ceiling or upside down, ha. I like feeling like I belong to someone, so I am more of a pet than anything. And I have only been with 2 guys, both way different in size. The first guy was a average 5 inches or so, and just didn’t feel good to me, I never really enjoyed sex with him. The guy I am with now, is wayyyyyy bigger. It felt like I was loosing my virginity again the first time we had sex. Uh, it definitely turns me on a lot more than the first guy, thats for sure. BUt, I am a lot more open with this guy now, and way more attracted him. Would never want the first guy to be my dom, eck. BUt, a lot of people are not like that. I am a relationship kinda gal. And maybe you could go in with small things at first. :) Have you heard of fetlife? Its a great way to get involved in the BDSM community in your area.